How to be a {SEXY} Man!

February 9, 2023
Have you ever seen a woman who is not technically super gorgeous but has something about her that is crazy sexy? The same goes the other way. So, when it comes to being sexy, three components need to be discussed: how you look, how you act, and what you say. Keep in mind there is no one size fits all solution for everybody – what one woman finds sexy may be different than what another woman finds sexy. But certain aspects are consistently perceived as sexy. 

Always be perceived as SEXY!

AestheticFind a style that resonates with you and makes you feel sexy. Dark monochromatic looks and outfits make me feel confident and sexier. Perhaps you’re badass outfit is a collared polo shirt and some sexy chinos. Or maybe an overcoat makes you feel sexy. Find what works for you and makes you feel sexy. A pro tip is that monochromatic looks are a great way to make you look taller and more muscular. Another pro tip is to find your sexy spirit animal. Is there a celebrity or somebody that you know that you think is sexy? That would be your sexy spirit animal. Jason Momoa is a good example. There’s just something about him and his playful presence. He doesn’t take himself too seriously. David Beckham is another example, along Ryan Gosling. He has that swagger and elegance.

Amazing skinYou don’t need thousands of products. A simple basic skincare routine is all that is necessary. Tiege Hanley is your sexy secret weapon, and you will instantly notice the difference in your face by using these products. Your skin will glow and radiate. If you are new to skincare, start with Level 1 (the basics), which includes wash, exfoliating scrub, AM moisturizer SPF, and PM moisturizer. Take it next level and add eye cream for Level 2 or the eye cream + the anti-aging super serum for Level 3.

Sense of humorSomebody funny is more attractive, but don’t go overboard. Trying too hard to make people laugh is a turn-off. The ability to poke fun at yourself and not take yourself too seriously is impressive, but not too much. If you’re constantly putting yourself down or making a joke about yourself, you will not be perceived as serious or having high self-esteem. Overall, sexy people deliver communications better.

IntelligenceIf you know many things or a little about many things, this is sexy because you’re not a dummy. Dumb people are not sexy.

KindnessBe kind and complimentary to everybody. I compliment everybody.

Listening skills — Be a good listener. If you’re an active listener with head nodding and possibly a little touching, it’s automatically sexy.

Ability to be a gentlemanChivalry is sexy. Having manners and saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ is sexy.

Romantic side Being romantic is not only going to make the person you’re with think you’re sexier but also all of her friends will think you’re sexier. Plan a date where you have to go to her office where all of her friends will see you came in and did something sweet for her. She will tell them all about it because she wants to make them jealous, and then they will see you as hot and sexy.

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No matter how perfect your diet is, you’re not going to get the quantities of micronutrients that you need. A multivitamin is designed to give you a baseline, even if your diet is good, to ensure you get the micronutrients to support your body functions. But, not all vitamins are created equal. If you’re taking synthetic vitamins, you’re not absorbing them entirely because your body doesn’t know what to do with them. You end up peeing them out, wasting money. Get your nutrients from whole-food vitamins, which you must take more than one a day because all the micronutrients cannot be packed into a single pill. But your body will know what to do with these nutrients. Also, taking an additional supplement of Biotin is one of the best things you can do for your skin and hair strength. You can take the whole-food multivitamin and Biotin together.

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